Friday, November 27, 2009

Thankfulness

During this season of Thanksgiving, there are many obvious things for which to be thankful: our beautiful new home is finished, our son is growing and thriving, and our stable, loving marriage. But there are some others this year that may not usually come to mind:

I am thankful to have too many homes instead of none at all.

I am thankful that the funding for my job is still present.

I am thankful for my mother, who has been Super Grammy for the past five months, providing encouragement, support, and child care during meetings with the contractor, trips to choose facucets, granite, cabinets, closets, etc. , emergency visits to the house, and too many other times to list.

I am thankful for the people who worked on our new home. I do not know many others who can say that they truly trusted their contractors. Phil and Jon were absolutely amazing, demonstrating respect and hard work as if it was their own home. Even the demolition crew was always friendly and accomodating. Several of them have asked to come by and see the finished product.

I am thankful for memories. As I am surrounded by packing boxes, I am constantly stopping to reminisce about different objects. Some of my favorite finds: The green concealer, the doctor's bag, the delta blocks, and many other treasures.

I am thankful for all the people that helped create these memories. And I am thankful that there are more to come! Let the moving commence!

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Finito


June 15: Demolition Began


6 Weeks of Demolition


5 1/2 Months Total Renovations


8346 Decisions (an estimate)


2 1/2 Weeks later than the estimated finish date


November 25: Completion

The dumpster has been removed. It is officially done.

Monday, November 23, 2009

McLovin'


25 Pounds, 2 ounces and 34 3/4 Inches

of Pure Lovin'!


Can you handle it?

Sunday, November 22, 2009

So Long, Farewell


As we get ready to move, I have become very nostalgic about our current house. We have lived here for almost 6 1/2 years and for Max's entire life. Yet, he probably will not remember it at all. Our new house will be the one he thinks of as the house he grew up in. So I wanted to have a pictorial homage to the house where our family started. First, with Jason and I, and then with the addition of Max.

The house was built in the late 1930s and is over 70 years old. As you enter the door:

The front door is one of the things I have always loved the most about this house because it has so much character. We bought the rug in front of the door in Bolivia. Jason swore I would not be able to fit it into my suitcase to bring home, but the master packer prevailed! The front door opens into the living room:

The living room was the last room to be furnished. It was empty for quite a while! Now it includes a marble table we purchased in India that was shipped to us in a crate filled with hay, prints of Furman, family pictures, and a cabinet I found in an antique shop. To the left of the living room is the sunroom:


The sunroom is the kitties' favorite room. When you sit on the furniture, tufts of fur float into the air. Frank watches prey (squirrels) that he cannot catch and Bean is visited by Spooky, another black cat in the neighborhood. Every Monday, Max pulls the chair closer to the window for a front row seat of the garbage truck parade. Back through the living room to the right is the dining room:

We have the dining room furniture that belonged to Jason's great-grandparents. Jason grew up having Sunday dinner with his grandparents and extended family at this table. We are very fortunate that his family allowed us to have it! Most of the silver pieces belonged to my grandparents and my father's family. A butler's pantry connects the dining room to the kitchen:


We painted the kitchen my favorite shade of blue. Although it is cozy, I love the huge, original sink and white cabinets. And the "Bon Appetit" was painted by moi! Through the breakfast room, you pass the downstairs bathroom:

On your way to the den:


The den is actually a 4th bedroom, but we used it as a den/computer room/playroom. I loved having the computer in the same room as the TV because it meant we were always together no matter what activity we were engaged in. However, Max's toys have definitely overtaken the room and need a home all their own. Pictures of friends, family, and from our various travels make the room very homey. The bedrooms are all upstairs, including the large master bedroom:


The master has plenty of room. Over our bed is a framed cloth that we got in India which is made of pieces of saris and dresses of India's former royals. There is also a poem about children that my mother gave me when Max was born. You can see the small door that opens to the very narrow closet:


However, the spaces is so well utilized that we've always had plenty of room! The bathroom is also spacious with plenty of counter space (for me). The two sinks are set off to the side, which means Jason was a bit squished in the corner.


Down the hall is the guest room (aka Becker's room), which has Jason's childhood furniture. Jason's father passed away when he was young and this bedroom set was one of the last gifts he gave to Jason. It is very special to him and will be Max's one day soon!

Max's room is across the hall from the guest room and the other bath. For most of the past 2 years, we referred to it as "the nursery" as though we lived in some huge mansion :)

I wanted a reading tree painted in Max's room and then we decided that Frank and Bean also had to be included for posterity! This is the thing I am the saddest to leave behind because it symbolizes the end of Max's babyhood. I love his room with all his mural, books and animals and its special baby smell.

Back down the stairs and out the back door is the backyard and driveway. Because we live on a corner, the neighborhood kids often cut through our yard. Now that they have befriended Max, there are lots of knocks on the back door. We will miss that familiarity.

Goodbye, house.
Goodbye to the the place where:
Jason carried me over the threshold...we hosted engagement parties, baby showers, 80s and Derby parties...we discovered a stone wall underneath all the ivy...the oak tree drops nuts like shotgun blasts...neighbors clapped when we brought Max home from the NICU...we learned to be parents...Max started walking (and running)...goodbye to our home. We will miss you.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Two At Last!

Dear Max,

As we move into life as a 2 year old, I wanted to pause for a snapshot of your current life:

You are the only child I know who has had a cohesive narrative since the day you came home from the hospital. You quickly asserted yourself as the King of the Babies and began feuding with the cats. Temporary peace has reigned, but I believe that more battles will be initiated when we move into the new house. And what have we created by bowing to your demands for supremacy? A child who is in love with himself! You adore looking at your blog and want to scroll through your pictures on the computer 47 times a day. Note: As a true child of the millennium, Max is not satisfied with actual photo albums. He wants it to be digital and to control the mouse.


The Max loves his schedule. You go to bed without complaint at 7:30 pm and usually sleep until 7:30 am. You rarely ever wake up during the night, even when Frank is trapped in your room yelping. Naptime is at 12:30 and lasts for about 2 hours, except on the days that you go to ITP. On Mondays, you go visit Great Grandma and Grandpa Beau. and any additional family members who happen to be there. Tuesdays mornings are ITP and then the afternoon with Grammy. Wednesday mornings are with Grammy and the afternoons with Mommy. Thursdays are also ITP, but all day Friday is Max and Mommy time.


You are a singing junkie. You know the motions to "Itsy Bitsy Spider", "Twinkle, Twinkle", and the "Wheels on the Bus". You sing some of the words, but mostly hum along. Speaking is the only area we are concerned about for you. Recently, we had an evaluation done by Baby Net to assess for possible speech delays. Your comprehension (receptive) language score was very high, but there was a slight delay for your expressive language. However, the two are combined into one "communication" score and canceled each other out, so you did not qualify for services. The evaluator said you have an appropriate number of words in your vocabulary, but not enough verbs. It is hard to make sentences with only nouns! She suggested waiting a few more months to see if it improved before making any decisions about speech therapy. You certainly manage to get your point across by pulling us around by the finger to do your bidding! All other areas were fine, especially your motor skills. You have developed quite an interest in climbing lately....luckily so far, you have only tried to climb IN the crib instead of OUT of it.

We have seen some brief foreshadowing of 2 year old tantrums, but you are mostly an exceptionally happy and easygoing kid. You love to laugh and to make us laugh. Every day is full of kisses and hugs and cuddles. We are so lucky to have you!

Love, Mommy

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Happy 2nd Birthday, Max!

Dear Max,

Happy 2nd Birthday, Baby! I have pledged that we will finally stop calling you "Baby" now that your infancy is officially over. And one day I may even get around to changing the blog title...but probably not soon. This will be my final monthly letter to you. I will continue to write down your stories and special memories, as well as some semi-regular letters. I will treasure these vignettes of your childhood and I hope that someday you will treasure them too.

Max, we continue to learn many lessons from you each day. Parenting is a huge and sometimes overwhelming task. Your father and I feel a duty to provide for you in physical, emotional, and spiritual ways. Yet, you are the one teaching us responsibility, patience, and the power of grace. I am in awe of what has been entrusted to us. We are unbelievably blessed. Blessed by your smiles, your laughs, your heart, and your love. We only pray that we are worthy of all these blessings. Max, I love each day with you, but I cannot wait to see the person that you grow to be!

A look back at the past year in pictures:

13 Months


14 Months


15 Months


16 Months


17 Months


18 Months


19 Months


20 Months


21 Months


22 Months


23 Months


24 Months


We love you so much, our big toddler!

Love, Mommy

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Chugga Chugga Choo Choo!

Chugga Chugga Choo Choo!
Max is turning 2!
Come Ride on Down the Tracks
And Party with The Max!

Planning Max's birthday party was not an easy task this year since we were unsure what house (if any) we would be living in. It is also a little risky to try to have an outdoor party in the middle of November. However, I do not think Max could have enjoyed any party more than his train party! Beautiful weather, great friends, and a 2 year old bouncing with excitement about riding the train with everyone.

Gangsta Train Conductor


Max was thrilled to see his cousins, neighborhood friends, and toddler friends join him. He squealed and dragged them over to the fence one by one to watch the train go pass.


Little kids and big kids and grown up kids took a special train ride on
Max's Birthday Express! All Aboard!



Max had an absolutely adorable and yummy train cake and cupcakes created by the very talented Lindsey! (Click here for her cake blog)



Max continued his traditional disdain of cake, but was happy with his birthday juice boxes nevertheless.


Thank you to everyone for helping us celebrate the Max!
Happy Birthday to our favorite Big Boy!