Monday, February 25, 2013

Ready, Set, Read!

Max. Can. Read.

Max has been successfully reading his short homework books (of mostly sight words) throughout 4K. He has conquered the BOB books with their simple sentences and repetitive vowels sounds. He has mastered a few Learn to Read books that used various combinations of the same three sentences to make a story (He had to read it instead of memorizing because the word order changes slightly each time!) But it wasn't until a recent trip to the library that I began to classify him as a READER. 

At the library Max chose a selection of easy reader books, sat down, opened the book Tired Trucks, and read the book. A book he had never seen. A book with plenty of pages, details, and a plot. A book full of words he did not know yet and had to sound out. He read a book. 

I come from a family of teachers. I read to my children constantly. I know learning to read is not magic, but it felt like magic as we sat squished into a library chair and I listened to him read to me.

Magic.

And he marked the occasion by receiving his own library card to check out his own books!


(Haven't the designs become much cooler?)

Max's enthusiasm for reading was ignited. He read his books to anyone who would listen, and after he ran out of audience members at home he took the books to school and read them to his class! Our daily reading routine has been extended to include time for Max to read to us, as well as for his new fascination with lengthy chapter books. Stuart Little and Trumpet of the Swan were hits and now Henry and Ribsy is on deck. So many wonderful books waiting to be shared!

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Fun and Games

It is not as easy to accommodate play dates once everyone has multiple children of various ages. It helps that Sarah thinks she can do everything the big kids can do....

Football with the Buds


Sweet 7-year old Claire took charge of Sarah and even offered to babysit! Maybe next year...


Birthday twins Sarah and Mary Frank are the right age and right size to share the love with one another!


All ages can enjoy basketball!
Max and Cade were enthralled by the game...


but Charlie and Sarah were more interested in playing!




Most of our play dates are too busy to involve pictures, but they all have memorable moments. Recently a friend was visiting Max and I was washing dishes while they played a word game in the next room. The letter was "S" and the friend announced he had an "S" word: Shi*. I made a beeline for the den, flashing back to our last letter incident. Max's friend was already spelling the word when I arrived: S-H-I-P, ship!" Crisis averted. Again.

It's always fun and games with a crew of silly kids!

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Addiction

Research shows addiction can run in families.


Sarah's Blankie is safely locked away in her bed during the day to prevent blanket dependence, but it is hard to overcome the cravings. When she is unable to resist, Sarah seeks out her blankie and snuggles with it through the bars, pokes her thumb in her mouth, and turns her back in hopes that no one will notice the illegal activity.

Driving Under the Influence


 
C'mon, Mom! I just need it for a minute! Just one hit!


Time for an intervention.

Sunday, February 17, 2013

5 1/4 Years



Dear Max,

Change is on the horizon. I recently registered you, my baby, for kindergarten. I was not emotional as I submitted the paperwork at school. I was not emotional as I watched the lines of students walking through the hallways. The tears didn't come until I dropped you off at preschool the next day and you hopped out of the car, shouldered your giant tote bag, and with a quick glance over your shoulder said, "Bye, Mommy! I love you!" as you ran towards your classroom. The waves of emotion were so conflicting; I want you to love school and love learning, but it is so difficult to see you walk away.


You are on the cusp of transition. When we play with friends who are only a few months older than you but already in kindergarten, I can see a difference in maturity, attitudes, interests that wasn't present before. I treasure your sweet innocence right now. I love that you think a play date means dinosaurs and trains instead of video games or movies. I love that you call Sarah your best friend. I love that you ask permission instead of trying to be sneaky. I love that you jump up and down when your team scores, no matter who made the shot. I love that you are so eager to share information and stories with us, your family, your teachers, and your friends. Listening to you recount your latest adventure to someone else is so fun! Most of all, I love that you still say "I love you, Mommy" 874 times per day.


Max, you have such an interest in writing and reading, from writing Mad Libs in the car to creating stories with illustrations. Three of your church teachers recently raved about your coloring skills and penmanship. Lego sets have overtaken puzzles as your favorite hobby, but you take them apart and start over as soon as they are completed. You seem to have a natural inclination for math and building thanks to all the engineers on Daddy's side of the family. After a classmate's mother and father came to your class to talk about being architects, you have settled on this as your chosen career. It fits!

Tip: Doing legos on a cookie sheet helps keep the pieces together!

Self-help skills are not your forte, but you are finally starting to take a interest in some areas, such as making your own breakfast and folding your clothes. I knew it was time to encourage such progress when you told me one night, "Mommy, I'll always live with you. I need you to make my waffle in the mornings." Toaster waffles are definitely something a five year old can manage...


Rearranging the spice drawer and making Spice Rocket Ships

Max, we are so proud of you. You are an amazing kid! I wish we could take the credit, but there is so much more we can do to be better parents. We are still learning every day. Thanks for being a great teacher and for being so much fun!



 
Love, Mommy

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Sweethearts

My Valentine Sweethearts



Annual pictures at the Julie Valentine Memorial



I love that Max calls it the "Heart Park" and also recognizes the symbol at my agency, the Julie Valentine Center.


Be still, my hearts.



Luckily, we had created Max's Valentine mailbox for school prior to the Great Sickness!

Valentine, You Are Dino-mite!

Valentine's Day wouldn't be complete without our Heart Hunt. Max asked for the scavenger hunt to be harder this year now that he is older. Both kids got a message in a bottle to start the hunt...


which eventually led to some surprises under the ottoman!




Babies, you have stolen my heart forever!


Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Dino Disaster

Dinosaurs abound in our house: dinosaur models, dinosaur brownies, dinosaur books and lots of dinosaur clothes.




Since developing an intense interest in dinosaurs, Max has begged to see dinosaur bones. A family trip to view dinosaur fossils was part of his birthday gift, and Max has been eager to plan our excursion! Originally the idea was to travel to New York or Washington D.C., but those places are COLD at this time of year. After investigating options within driving distance, we learned of some great museums in the Raleigh/Durham area. Returning to our old haunts also provided the chance to visit with some wonderful friends and their families. 

Sarah developed a high fever on the night prior to our adventure. A visit to the doctor provided no answers and as her fever dropped then disappeared, we decided to take the risk and go ahead with our plans. Even our friends had no misgivings about meeting for dinner, which provided the only fun for the weekend. 

Feeling good in the car on the way to Raleigh...


The next morning


Max had trouble sleeping due to intense coughing, then Sarah woke up vomiting at 4 am. Poor baby continued to be sick for the next four hours almost without stopping. She refused to drink any liquids, so we eventually gave her Pedialyte through a medicine dropper. Poor Max's dreams of  a fun trip (dinosaur bones! a hotel with an indoor pool! new playmates!) were dashed and the disappointment was overwhelming. Sarah was so sick that we decided to wait until the worst of the vomiting had passed before attempting to drive home. Luckily for Max, he did have the opportunity to visit one museum with Daddy in an effort to keep him out of the hotel room and away from Sarah's germs. 

Terror of the South!


Acrocanthosaurus







Could it be the Pterandon family from Dinosaur Train?



More than just dinosaurs!



Max had packed three dinosaur shirts and had trouble deciding which one to wear. He deemed the T-Rex shirt the best for dinosaur viewing.



Our inquisitive paleontologist loved the museum even if the visit was short! When he arrived back at the hotel, he begged for a quick swim while we packed.



The trip home with a violently ill child was better than expected and both kids were able to sleep. 



The Great Sickness hung around our house for days afterwards, eventually infecting the entire family. Mimi sacrificed herself to take care of the four of us, then got sick as we were starting to mend. Whether you are 1, 5 or 33 years old, everyone wants their Mama when they are sick.

The dinosaurs never had it this rough...